As a good and normal friend, first thing that we will do is saying "Don't be sad, girl...." then send a sad emoticon.
Is that enough? The fact is, that words aren't working. The truth is we can't really understand how did she feel. We will feel sad too, but we can't understand how hurt her feeling is. Beside that all of our sympathy can't heal her wounded heart.
So, what shoul we do?
1. Just listen to her story. Give her time to tell us her full story. Don't try to give her advise if she doesn't ask. If it necessary, give her a hug. All girls need is an attention and understanding.
2. Make her smile. Tell jokes or anything funny to distract her sadness. Then tell good things of her, don't hesitate to praise her. Show that we are always here for her, and stand for her.
3. Be patient in your friendship. Not all problems need solving. Maybe we only need times to organize everythings. Her wound will be healed by time flies.
I think that's all easy and logic ways to cheer up a broken hearted person. So, wish you have a long lasting friendship!
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